Wednesday, June 18, 2014
I Need Help...
The message was short...
"Please call me (insert phone number) I need help"
Each word carried weight... gravitas
Each word carried a sense of urgency...Now! Not tomorrow or next week.
Each word was written with a humble, gracious, loving heart...Please...call...me...I...need...help...
And so I did...
My friend said, "I'm okay and then broke down in a flood of tears."
What is it about us that we tell others we are "okay" and the harsh reality is that we are on the verge of a tsunami of tears?
What is it about hearing a trusted voice on the other end of the phone that makes everything feel better in an instant?
What is it about being comforted by someone who has walked the downtrodden dusty trail just a few miles ahead of us that is profoundly soothing?
What is it about the privilege of jumping down into the deep hole of despair with a friend and being with them in their pain and as they dissolve into a puddle of tears so do you?
What is it about coming along someone who is hurting and putting your arm around their neck and holding them close that brings healing not only to them but to your heart as well?
What is it about the scriptures that when we recited Jeremiah 29.11 together, our voices in perfect sync with one another over the cellular air waves, "I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future" we were provided an immediate sure foundation of knowing without a doubt that we indeed do have hope and a future?
What is it about being open about our woundedness that brings not judgment but compassion and tears and love and a true desire to bring one another to restoration and reconciliation?
What is it about a plea shouting, "I NEED HELP" that allowed our conversation to eventually end with laughter?
What is about God's promise that He is an ever present help in our time of trouble?
"God is our refuge and strength,
a very present help in trouble.
Therefore we will not fear though the earth gives way,
though the mountains be moved into the heart of the sea,
though its waters roar and foam,
though the mountains tremble at its swelling." (Psalm 46. 1-3)
What is it about?
It's about you and me being courageous and vulnerable enough to utter three of the most difficult words that have ever been put together in this specific order!
I need help...
I know I do...
How bout you?
And that's my iWitness...
Laugh often and Fear not!
"Be happy with those who are happy, and weep with those who weep." (Romans 12. 15)